I'm not going to lie, I am a woman that has used my cleavage to my advantage ever since I realized the power of breasts! If I was going to the club dancing, if I was going on a first date, if I was going on a 3rd date...the cleavage never let me down. It drew men in closer, made them hold me tighter, and stare a little longer.
Cleavage is nothing to be ashamed of, embrace your sexuality and femininity....enjoy being a woman! I know there are women that prefer the modesty of covering up their cleavage, and that is a personal choice that I can respect. However, I have never been a woman that felt that was necessary.
I think showing some cleavage is no different than showing off your legs in a mini skirt. There was a time when just showing our ankles was considered risqué, but that time is well past. The female body is beautiful with all of it's curves, and softness...and it is in direct contrast to the angles and hardness of men. No wonder they are fascinated with our cleavage, and with us!!
Part of the mesmerizing appeal of cleavage is the fact that it's a body part that is both utilitarian and sexual. Breasts have a purpose, to feed babies...however, they are also a sexual erogenous zone that brings pleasure to both partners. Allowing a man to suckle your nipples can be incredibly intimate, bonding and very arousing. It's really no wonder a hint of cleavage can stop a man in his tracks!
So, buy that push up bra, or that V-neck blouse...don't be afraid to show a little cleavage and let yourself enjoy the appreciative glances. You are a woman, and your breasts don't define you, but they sure do add to your allure!